If you’ve been ghosted by someone you really liked, we’re sorry for you. And no, it doesn’t get any easier. First off, we’d like to say that it isn’t your fault that you were ghosted unless you did something or referenced something inappropriate.
Mostly, girls ghost guys because they don’t hit it off with them or aren’t interested in them anymore. And although it’s understandable, it still isn’t justifiable. It’s rude and unnecessary to leave someone hanging just because you don’t feel like explaining your side.
But that isn’t the only reason girls ghost guys, and ghosting isn’t the end of anything unless you both want it to be. Almost every new connection is salvageable as long as you know exactly what to say.
Don’t worry; we won’t hang you out to dry. Read on until the end of this blog to learn all that can possibly be learned about why girls don’t respond to messages and what you should do about it!
What to Say to a Girl When She Doesn’t Reply?
If this is the first time a girl hasn’t responded to you, we understand that you’re entirely out of depth here.
The first thing to remember is that being left on read is a completely reversible state and is just a minor inconvenience in the grand scheme of things. If all goes well, the two of you might even laugh about it in a week or two.
Here’s how you should proceed in a similar situation.
Firstly, try to look at the bigger picture. Think about her point of view and how she might be taking your approach. Could you have come across as needy or unemotional, rude or immature? This is called determining the ‘why.’
Second, think about your standing in the situation. Does it really matter to you if you’ve been ghosted?
This depends entirely on the answer to the first question.
It shouldn’t matter to you if you feel like you’ve done nothing wrong. However, if you’ve indeed slipped up or made a mistake, it’s best to apologize for it.
One of the default responses to ghosting is to follow up with one more text. This lets them know you’re still interested, but not for long.